"The narrator says: ""When her season ended my daughter joined a weekly youth league."" ""She wants to get better!""  The narrator's daughter plays in a pickup game.  The narrator says: ""She plays bigger kids, girls and boys—"" ""They play rough—"" ""They knock each other around—""  A player pushes the daughter while dribbling past her.  The narrator says: ""But they don't seem driven to tear each other down.""  After the point, the other player helps the daughter back up."
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